ChangingAging reader Sandy Dole says she would rather been seen as a person than a label, in response to Bill’s post on why he no longer uses the word “elderly”:
Well I prefer being seen as a person. Sometimes I am happy; sometimes I am sad; sometimes I am angry; sometimes I am silly. To my grandchildren and great grandchildren, I am Grandy; to my 3 children I am Mom; to my friends I am Sandy: to people who are annoyed with me, either just roll their eyes and/or say “there she goes again!” Until the day I die, I want to continue being who I am, and that means that when I can no longer verbally share that information, I am hoping that my caregivers will do everything they can to find out who I have been and continue to be even if I can’t tell them.









